In around or about 1825, a baby boy was born to slave parents. Their names are lost to history. But their son was called Abraham.
Abraham was a clever boy. His owners seem to have been "progressive" in that Abe was allowed to marry and keep his own earned money from odd jobs. He must have worked very hard, scrimped and saved, and eventually managed to buy his own freedom and that of his beloved wife Margaret. Since slaves were not legally allowed to marry, they had to wait until after abolition in 1866 to appear before the clerk in Franklin County and declare that they were common law husband and wife. Abe signed his name to the paper that recognized their union, and Margaret made her mark.
They built a homestead. He cleared the land with his own hands, planted his crops, and an orchard.
And filled the cellar that would see them through the winter.
He drove the wagon roads that criss-crossed the Kentucky hills,
to take his corn to market to sell.
He kept the walls that protected his livelihood.
Margaret visited the well every morning. It was a good, deep well that was meticulously dug and laid with creek-rock.
(note: this well has been the source of many a heart palpitation for me, which is why my mister, his brothers and our boy did this...)
(well done, men!)
Abe and Margaret had many children. But things were much harder then.
There were no antibiotics to be had.
Tuberculosis was an epidemic.
Only one of their children survived to adulthood. (We've counted 13 graves in this yard. The smallest few are no more than 2 feet long.)
Abe and Margaret eventually moved on, and are buried elsewhere. Perhaps it was too hard to eke out a living off the wild land. Perhaps it was just too painful to have the constant reminder of the loss of their beloved children so close by, each cold stone a broken life.
As the forest steps in to re-claim it's own, I just wanted to take a minute to stop and honor the struggles of Abe and Margaret. The hopes and dreams, the loves and the losses of a family that history could forget as easily as it did their parents.
(note: Abe and Margaret's place sits about a mile and a half back into the property of Mister's sister and her husband. It is lovingly preserved.)